Amongst the greatest joys in life is that of going with the flow.....being accepted for what you are...."Bridgette Jones"...I love you just as you are....is proof that birds of  the same feather...are the same bird!  So equipped with this knowledge you can attack this dating business with new found nerve. To be shy at the best of times is normal...but these are not normal times.  Frankly friendship carries with it a heavy burden....a friend in need is a friend indeed.  We have put together specialized programs to address the social norms and considrations but the single fact is that, there is only one issue you need to address and that single issue is ....what is your expectation for it is expectation that leads one along that joyous road or the lane of woeful sorrow. Addition guidance and help can be found at the following websites, http://www.disabled-world.com http://www.disabilityguide.com/refsocial.html  http://www.freedating-sites.com  http://www.lazarum.com/2/directorio/results_en.php?s_keyword=Disabled+dating.+Disabled+singles+ http://www.4ppl.com/directory/Personal/Dating-and-Relationships/Special-Dating/Disabled-Dating